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13 feminine seduction archetypes

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Siren”

By

The Siren

You are unbridled, erotic energy in its purest, most tantalizing form.

"Ten men waiting for me at the door? Send one of them home. I’m tired."
Mae west

The lover....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype and it over-rules all other archetypes!

A snapshot of the Siren

Patron Saint:

Elizabeth Taylor

In Pop Culture:

Kim Kardashian

On television:

Samantha Jones in Sex and the City

In film:

Gilda (Rita Hayworth) in Gilda

Your Potential To Captivate

You walk into a room and all eyes land on you. You radiate confidence, unselfconscious sensuality and palpable erotic energy. You are a male fantasy come to life, the personification of the great goddesses that man worshipped for some 25,000 years. When he encounters you, he experiences a strong, primal de ja vous. When you are fully tapped into your archetype (check out the lover course for a play-by-play on how to do this), you naturally appeal to a man’s ego, his libido, and his taste for adventure– a potent combination in a world where many men, having surrendered to rigorous social codes and first world comforts, often long for something wild and unfamiliar.

The lover archetype, is the oldest and most instinctive psychological archetype in a woman’s psyche. It represents a woman’s most primal urge to procreate. Just as the Greek goddess Aphrodite caused mortals and deities to fall in love, when the lover archetype is active in a woman’s psyche, she exudes a sublimating energy that both attracts and arouses.

Whenever we fall in love (or lust) the lover archetype is present. Consider what happens; our senses are heightened, we feel more beautiful, and sexually charged. The siren is so potent because you express all of the erotic energy of the lover archetype, without the restraints of a prominent secondary archetype.

 

Your challenges...

Your passion and spontaneity are both a blessing and a curse.  

The blessing; you live in the moment, you are playfully spontaneous, and emotionally available. Consider Elizabeth Taylor’s 7 marriages— for the better part of her adult life, the euphoric process of “falling in love” was far more fulfilling than staying in it. She was, however, so intoxicating to her suitors, that they lavished her with the world’s most expensive  jewels, all tributes to their seismic infatuation.

The curse; the absence of other, more objective archetypes makes it difficult to commit to long-term projects and relationships. If you haven’t learned to leverage and balance your lover energy, can be  difficult for you to exercise restraint, meaning you may find yourself in romantic liaisons that ignite and sputter faster than you’d hope. It’s harder for you, than most, to wield your erotic charm tactfully– and you may even be taken advantage of.

 

In the Lover Master Class you'll learn to cultivate this powerful archetype powerfully...

Explore the Lover Master Class

The lover archetype represents the sacred erotic– the life force energy in every woman that sparks reproduction and creativity. Connection with THIS archetype is what makes a woman naturally captivating and seductive. Learn to cultivate the lover archetype to amplify pleasure, passion, and ‘presence’. Channel that life force energy into creating your reality, increasing wealth and vitality, raising your vibe and your natural ability to attract people, love, and opportunity. Laugh often. Play more. Feel good. Heal the divine feminine within, own your sexuality and get anchored in the present moment. Command attention. Feel good in your skin– and open up to people and positive experience.​ Balance this archetype to temper with passion with reason– and to avoid emotional co-dependence. The lover archetype is the basis of all the seduction archetypes– so take this along with your dominant archetype to learn how to captivate.The Lover Master Class also contains the keys to captivate for all women who are dominant in their lover energy. Learn what makes you irresistible and who you attract!

In the Lover Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Connect to your creative, erotic 'lover' energy with practical exercises, lifestyle changes and mindset shifts
  • Identify the masculine archetypes you naturally attract, and know how to navigate those relationships POWERFULLY 
  • Understand your unique strengths, and overcome the unique challenges of your archetype
  • Feel good in your BODY
  • Use archetypes to get unstuck-- and understand your purpose
  • Move powerfully with the ability to balance your erotic energy with objective emotional distance
  • Recognize the ancient mythical stories that are playing out in your life RIGHT NOW
  • Know the  books, movies,  exercises and prompts that will fast-track your personal growth
  • Start daily practices and make lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype
  • Leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance
Explore the Lover Master Class

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I bought your Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Thank you so much for creating this sacred space. I just started your "Goddess Archetype" course. These are things I needed when I was younger... again, thank you.
Lauren
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, and they die. But I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volum e of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for.After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
So I took the architype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. Mt Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy.
Ella
Once I started this programme, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your programme states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the programme I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your programme as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M.
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What sets your soul on fire?

What is the spark about you that illuminates a room?

Prepare to embark on a breakthrough journey of self-discovery, designed to reveal the captivating, confident and powerful woman you were created to be.

Tens of thousands of women have taken the Feminine Archetypes Assessment on Women Love Power since its 2016 release. The assessment, based on Jungian archetypal psychology, was a two-year endeavor in the making, and it  provides an astoundingly accurate glimpse of your personality blueprint. 

What are the strengths, weaknesses, beliefs, values, aspirations and idiosyncrasies that make you YOU?

How does the world see you, at your  best?  How do you captivate? What is your calling? And what kind of tantalizing life would make you deliriously happy?

The Feminine Archetypes Assessment offers a brief snapshot of your personality, and your unique potential to captivate.  But be advised…

The key word is potential.

Everyday I receive letters from women who are pleasantly surprised by their  by their feminine archetypes results. They identify with the archetype descriptions, but they know they are not realizing their full potential–that’s a pretty a tall order.

Many women still grapple with the self-defeating behaviors and limiting beliefs that are native to each archetype. Your weaknesses are often the price you pay for natural strengths.

The truth is,  the feminine archetype assessment results only scratch the surface, and  for years I’ve been developing a resource that will lead women to themselves. The Feminine Odyssey will teach you to own your greatness  and ignite your inner spark  by tapping into archetypal wisdom. 

You may be suffering under the yoke of expectations, and yearning to get free. You may want to know how to overcome the habits that hold you back. You may want to know how to captivate, naturally, by being MORE of who you are. 

You may may want to know how to curate a life that ignites your passion.You may feel unprepared and stuck as  you figure out your life path.  You may want to know how to kick your life into high gear, and reach YOUR next level.

 

Get Inspired!

Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Sophisticate”

By

The Sophisticate

You exude elegance, worldliness and a touch of mystery.

The lover....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.
(watch 'lover' video)

The Sage...

Is your second highest archetype.
(watch sage video)

"A woman has to be intelligent, have charm, a sense of humor, and be kind. It's the same qualities I require from a man."
catherine deneuve

A snapshot of the Sophisticate

Patron Saint:

Jacqueline Kennedy

In Pop Culture:

Carla Bruni Sarkozy

On television:

Dhomonique Devereaux, Dynasty

In film:

Matty Walker Body Heat

Your Potential To Captivate

You are elegance personified. Graceful and dignified with discriminating tastes, your complex blend of the siren’s warm, erotic energy and the sage’s cool objectivity fascinates men. Your poise attracts,  but the real magic happens once people get close. That’s when you disarm with wit and charm.

If you’ve developed your sage energy, then  you are capable of distancing yourself from your feelings enough to see events as they are, not as your emotions color them.  With the siren’s sensuality, and sage’s level-headed approach, you have the potential to wield your seductive charms strategically.

At your best, you are capable of choosing men, and making them feel they have chosen you.

All sophisticates have the potential to be brilliant conversationalists; you possess the curiosity, the intuition and charm it takes to engage people and establish instant rapport.

Men appreciate your duality; your disarming exterior, and cerebral core, and the part of you that remains a mystery.

When it comes to suitors, only heroes need apply. You are attracted to powerful, smart,  ambitious men.  If his heart is set on glory, you are his not-so-secret weapon. You are capable of using your strategic thinking and sharp social instincts to help him reach his goals. Consider the manner in which Jackie Kennedy helped Jack write his early political speeches, and won over constituents with her chic style and personal charm.

 

At times,  tendency towards analysis and over-thinking will  keep you in your head, and your sage and lover instincts will essentially be at war– dimming your natural charm, intuition, creativity, and your ability to embrace your sensuality by connecting to your body. Your cerebral core can act like armor, keeping your protected, but actually repelling people, especially  lovers.  In the Sophisticate Master Class, we explore   how  to balance emotional distance and creative energy in order to cultivate the fullness of your dynamic personality. 

Discover the Sophisticate
In the Sophisticate Master Class Bundle, You'll Discover...
  • How to develop your personal 'sophisticate' brand of charisma
  • The masculine archetypes you naturally attract, and how to navigate those relationships POWERFULLY 
  • How to identify the behaviors and mindsets that hold you back
  • How to activate and express your magnetic, feel-good, 'lover' energy
  • How to use archetypes to get unstuck-- and figure out your purpose
  • How sophisticates can balance erotic energy with emotional distance-- the key to being a siren!
  • The ancient stories that are playing out in your life RIGHT NOW
  • The books, movies,  exercises and prompts that will fast-track your personal growth
  • The daily practices, environments and lifestyle choices that will put you in touch with your archetype
  • How you leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance
Get Started Now

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. My Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
Previous
Next

Get Inspired!

Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Boss”

By

The BOSS

You command power in the boardroom and the bedroom.

The sage....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The lover...

even if not your second highest archetype, is ACTIVE and over 70% on the quiz, ideally.

“Life is a dance between making it happen and letting it happen.”
Arianna huffington

A snapshot of the Boss

Patron Saint:

Cleopatra

In Pop Culture:

Amal Clooney

On television:

Olivia Pope, Scandal

In film:

Jacqueline Broyer, Boomerang

Your Potential To Captivate

Even the most skilled player will fumble when he encounters a woman who is confident, competent, and totally self-possessed. Some people call you an alpha-female, a “boss babe”, or better yet, the perfect mix of beauty and brains. Regardless of the label, when a successful man meets you—he’s met his match.

Your cool demeanor, mental acuity and emotional independence are the essence of your appeal. With the “sage” as your dominant archetype, you are a goal-oriented woman, motivated by proximity to power and the pursuit of knowledge. Unlike the siren, you do not need to connect in order to feel fulfilled. When a man senses that you do not fundamentally need him, you ignite a man’s instinct to chase and conquer. 

Consider how fictional DC fixer Olivia Pope triggers neurotic behavior in the otherwise self-possessed President Fitzgerald Grant on ABC’s Scandal, or how international human rights attorney Amal Clooney turned the tables on a life-long bachelor George Clooney.

You thrive in traditionally male-dominated environments and you may enjoy conversations about business, politics, and current events. Sometimes you date for sport– your tremendous self-sufficiency allows you to play the field without fear of heartbreak.

 

The Boss is ruled by the cool “sage” archetype, but when you are not connected to your creative, life-force “lover” energy, your tendency to live in your head causes you to overthink and judge. It makes it difficult for you to experience the pleasure of feeling rooted and totally present in the moment.  When sage energy goes unbalanced, it’s a challenge to  really tap into your full creative potential. Furthermore,  your cool demeanor, while potentially fascinating,  can also work as armor, repelling more than it attracts, thus keeping people at a respectful distance. This may make it harder to accomplish some of your personal and professional goals. When “Boss” women are totally aligned with their sage energy, and also connected to their sensual lover energy, they are force with which to be reckoned. These women are not only sharp strategists and witty conversationalist, but they fully inhabit their bodies, they are infinitely creativity ( Martha Stewart is actually a boss) and they feel at home in the realm of sensuality and emotional expression. 

Get Inspired!

In the BOSS Master Class Bundle Discover...
  • How to attract like a "BOSS"
  • The masculine archetypes you naturally attract, and how to  POWERFULLY navigate those relationships 
  • How to eliminate the behaviors and mindsets that hold you back
  • How you leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance
  • How to use archetypes to get unstuck-- and figure out your purpose
  • How Boss'  can balance erotic energy with emotional distance-- the key to being a siren!
  • The ancient stories that are playing out in your life RIGHT NOW
  • The books, movies,  exercises and prompts that will fast-track your personal growth
  • The daily practices, environments and lifestyle choices that will put you in touch with your archetype
MORE ON THE BOSS

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. Mt Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
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The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Bohemian”

By

The bohemian

Your independent spirit and sexy, devil-may-care attitude is irresistible.

The lover....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The Huntress...

Is your second highest archetype.

"If I make a fool of myself, who cares? I’m not frightened by anyone’s perception of me."
Angelina Jolie

A snapshot of the Bohemian

Patron Saint:

Gabrielle “Coco” Chanel

In Pop Culture:

Erykah Badu

On television:

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City

In film:

Elvira Hancock, Scarface

Your Potential To Captivate

Your sexy, devil-may-care attitude makes you naturally seductive. You are an independent, goal-oriented, free-spirit and you are fundamentally unconcerned with how anyone perceives you. This irreverence is immensely alluring.

At your best you don’t try to please, so men fall all over themselves, trying to please you.

You possess the sensual, creative, pleasure-seeking, spontaneity of the siren, with the physical, independent nature of the huntress. The huntress archetype represents a woman’s autonomy and her ability to select a life of her own choosing. 

There’s a certain down-to-earth, physicality about you that is tantalizing. You may be athletic, fond of the great outdoors, or just extremely confident in your own skin. Either way, your physicality shows.

Men respond to your confidence, self-possession, and maverick spirit.  You have the potential to  trigger a man’s impulse to conquer.

Brad Pitt dropped everything (including his current girlfriend) to create a family with Angelina Jolie. Erykah Badu’s power over hip-hop’s finest has been described as nothing short of magic.

Your anti-seductive qualities...

You have a tendency to be cut off from your emotional nature and vulnerability, thus making it difficult to relate to others, and forge real connections.  If both your  “huntress” and the “lover” energies are under-developed,  the goal-oriented nature of the ‘huntress’  will be at odds with your sensual, spontaneous ‘lover’ energy, thus diminishing your natural  appeal. Your pursuit of passion and freedom may interfere with your ability to make smart romantic decisions when you are seeking a lasting commitment.

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With the Bohemian Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Play up your natural, seductive appeal
  • Leverage the BEST aspects of your feminine archetypes, and manage the WORST
  • Know how real Bohemians (like Chanel) leveraged their personality to make their dreams come true
  • Ignite and express your raw, magnetic, 'lover' energy
  • Use archetypes to get unstuck-- and understand your life path
  • Curate a better, richer and more-rewarding life that's aligned with who YOU really are
  • Attract people and opportunity by being MORE of yourself
  • Know who you naturally attract-- and what to expect in those relationships
  • Start daily practices and make the lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype
  • Leverage your archetypes for wealth, opportunity and abundance

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. Mt Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
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Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Coquette”

By

The Coquette

You emotional detachment and self-sufficiency drives men to extremes.

The huntress....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The lover...

even if not your second highest, is ACTIVE, and ideally above 70%.

"If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun."
Katherine hepburn

A snapshot of the Coquette

Patron Saint:

Marlene Dietrich

In Pop Culture:

Serena Williams

On television:

Maxine Shaw, Living Single

In film:

Catherine Trammel, Basic Instinct

Your Potential To Captivate

Of all the female seduction archetypes, the Coquette is most likely to lead a man to his ruin. The source of your charm isn’t always obvious. Your appeal lies in your emotional distance,  your ability to retreat, leaving the other pining in your absence. This romantic give-and-take can reduce the most heroic man into an insecure shell of his former self.

With  a dominant “huntress” archetype, you are a confident, emotionally self-sufficient, freedom-seeking woman. Nothing matters more to you than independence and you resist being swallowed up in the oceanic depths of emotion. You are a passionate person,  but you often feel most deeply about work that moves you, or championing a cause. Romantic love isn’t always your top priority  though your are more than capable of a loving relationship. As long as a man treats you with respect and gives you what you want, you are content. 

Man’s infatuation with a coquette’s powers knows no bounds. Charles could never shake his first love, Camilla Parker Bowles, and after tragedy and much royal scandal, he ultimately married her, essentially renouncing his right to the throne. Lou Andreas Salome held her admirers in such thrall that two of the world’s leading philosophers, Paul Ree and Friedrich Nietzsche, agreed to a live-in ménage-a-trois where they, two esteemed men of logic, fought for her affection like school boys.

You have moxie, nerve and verve. You don’t shy from speaking your mind, and you may even share many of a man’s interests, from sports  to flying planes. You are an adventurer at heart. You are even capable of having sex “like a man”, without strings attached, when the feeling moves you.

Your emotional self-sufficiency is powerfully seductive.

Your anti-seductive qualities...

When the lover archetype is active, which is critical for the coquette’s charm  to be effective, your  sensual, and cool energy  enraptures. When  you are disconnected from your creative energy, you are more likely to find yourself in a string of platonic, ‘friendzone’ relationships. It may be hard for others to see you outside of the context of friend without that attracting ‘spark’.  It’s often hard for women dominated by the fierce huntress energy to also connect to their erotic energy without deliberate effort. If operating in the huntress’s shadow, you can be judgemental, aloof, and even cruel– though sometimes rage is a good thing, it can be off-putting if heavy handed.  Unlike the ‘sage’, ‘huntress’ women are rooted, and connected in their bodies, but their emotional distance can stand in the way of their ability to sympathize, relate, and connect to others, without other balancing archetypes. 

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With the Coquette Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Integrate your cool coquette energy with your natural, magnetic lover energy
  • Leverage the BEST aspects of your feminine archetypes, and overcome the WORST
  • Identify the behaviors and mindsets that ruin your natural, seductive appeal
  • Leverage your archetypes for wealth, opportunity, and abundance
  • Learn from legendary coquettes-- exactly how they leveraged their personality for success and love
  • Attract people and opportunity by being MORE of yourself
  • Know who you naturally attract-- and what to expect in those relationships
  • Start the daily practices and make the lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. My Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
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Next
Get Started Now

Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Goddess”

By

The Goddess

Your sultry, serene presence makes you appear other-worldly.

The lover....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The Mystic...

Is your second highest archetype.

“When you’re an introvert like me and you’ve been lonely for a while, and then you find someone who understands you, you become really attached to them. It’s a real release.”
lana del rey

A snapshot of the Goddess

Patron Saint:

Eva Peron

In Pop Culture:

Sade

On television:

Betty Draper, Mad Men

In film:

Cora Smith, The Postman Always Rings Twice

Your Potential To Captivate

Your sultry, serene presences mesmerizes, while your emotional poise keeps your admirers at arms length.  Your extreme emotional equanimity and calm presence makes you appear above the quotidian and banal. You appear other-worldly, like a mythic goddess come to life. Some may even find you aloof.

In reality, you are one of the rare women with a deeply internal focus. A natural introvert, you appreciate solitude and activities that allow you to go inward, like meditation and yoga. As a dominant lover, you do enjoy attention and connection, which you garner with your striking appearance,  but there is a distinct subdued aspect to your personality.

Your secondary archetype is the mystic, which means that inner peace and spirituality, or at least feeling connected to something greater, are priorities for you.  Your home is your sanctuary and your regard your personal space as sacred.

  Just as people are drawn to a fire’s warmth,  admirers find your soulful, sensual  presence and grounded energy comforting. Your distance is equally enchanting. You are like a star, sparkling from a light years away. Few can get close enough to see your more human qualities.

You appeal to a man’s instinct to dream. The combination of warm siren energy, and cool mystic energy creates an emotional vacuum that consumes people, making them want more of you.

Consider R&B crooner Sade, whose subdued, sultry sound has been described as “the voice of comfort to the wounded heart”. The  enigmatic songstress often performs her gentle sounding music in bare feet, her costumes, simple, her lush hair, away from her face—and even though she releases roughly one album per decade,  she maintains legions of loyal fans. In her absence, her presence looms larger. This is the power of the goddess.

Your anti-seductive qualities...

You can become so internally focused that you are cut off from your sensuality, spontaneity and ability to connect. You may be the woman who can attract curious eyes, but can’t emotionally seal the deal. Essentially, until you learn how to nurture  and unite both your lover and mystic energy, both archetypes will oppose each other. Your desire to connect may be compromised by your introverted nature, and the ease at which you can become a homebody. While you are a dominant lover, you may need to learn to fully embrace your creative, erotic energy, as  your primary and secondary archetypes can be at odd. 

Discover the Goddess
With the Goddess Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Awaken both your soulful mystic and your sensual  lover energy-- and harmonize both
  • Leverage the BEST aspects of your feminine archetypes, and overcome the WORST
  • Identify the behaviors and mindsets that ruin your natural, seductive appeal
  • See how goddesses like Eva Peron used their personality to get what they wanted
  • Use archetypes to get unstuck-- and figure out your life path
  • Curate a better, richer and more-rewarding life that's aligned with who YOU really are
  • Attract people and opportunity by being MORE of yourself
  • Learn who you naturally attract-- and what to expect in those relationships
  • Start the daily practice and make the lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype
  • Leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. My Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
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Get Inspired!

Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Enigma”

By

The Enigma

Your mysterious air and soulful demeanor magnetizes.

The Mystic....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The lover...

if not your second highest archetype, is ACTIVE, and ideally above 70%.

"I never said, ‘I want to be alone.’ I only said, ‘I want to be left alone’. There is all the difference."
greta garbo

A snapshot of the Enigma

Patron Saint:

Greta Garbo

In Pop Culture:

Sabrina Claudio

On television:

Phoebe Buffay, Friends

In film:

Annie, Annie Hall

Your Potential To Captivate

You project a zen-like, earthy, soulfulness that is positively magnetic. At first glance, you may seem aloof, or even  quirky due to your reclusive, often spiritual personality, but you are neither cold nor narcissistic.

Ruled by the mystic archetype, you focus your emotions inward. You crave neither fame nor constant attention. Spiritual fulfillment and inner peace are your highest priorities. You yearn to feel connected to something greater.

You don’t need validation, attention, competition, or connection to make you feel whole.  You may even flee those things for the comfort of solitude. You are content within yourself and that extreme self-possession is your most attractive quality.  

 You are comforting, grounding energy. You make  your lover feel seen and heard in a way that the rest of the world can not.

In her autobiography “My Art, My Life”, Mexican artist Frida Kahlo’s description of her lover, artist Diego Rivera, an otherwise comely man twenty years her senior, is positively breathtaking. It’s as if the beauty of his soul overrides any of his corporeal flaws. In spite of their monumental love, Frida and Diego maintained an “open” marriage long  before that term even entered the popular vernacular, an extreme example of the enigma’s ability to love with a light grip.

 You keep a part of you just for yourself. A man never feels he has “figured you out” hence you  forever remain an enigma. Into your mystery a man may fall, hoping to find his redemption in the solution. 

 

 

Your anti-seductive qualities...

Your deep internal focus can be at odds with developing your full sensuality and creativity. It’s particularly hard for you to awaken  the naturally magnetic, sensual energy of the lover.  You may live in your head, at the expense of full body consciousness, which also compromises both  your sensuality and sexuality. Your self-sufficiency and introverted nature can easily leave you lonely and closed off from deep connection and attraction.

Discover the Enigma
With the Enigma Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Awaken your natural, magnetic lover energy and integrate it with the Mystic
  • Leverage the BEST aspects of your feminine archetypes, and overcome the WORST
  • Identify the behaviors and mindsets that ruin your natural, seductive appeal
  • Learn from the best, famous enigmas like Frida, who captivated the world
  • Use archetypes to get unstuck-- and figure out your life path
  • Curate a better, richer and more-rewarding life that's aligned with who YOU really are
  • Atract people and opportunity by being MORE of yourself
  • Know exactly who you naturally attract-- and what to expect in those relationships
  • Start the daily practices and make the lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype
  • Leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. My Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
Previous
Next
Get Started Now

Get Inspired!

Curious about your archetype? Take the psychology-driven Seduction Archetype Quiz.

Click to learn more about the other archetypes: Siren | Sophisticate | Boss | Bohemian | Coquette | Goddess | Enigma | Diva | Empress | Sensualist | Lady | Ingenue | Gamine

The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.

13 Feminine Seduction Archetypes: The “Diva”

By

The diva

You exude glamour and majestic appeal.

The lover....

Is your DOMINANT feminine archetype.

The Queen...

Is your second highest archetype.

"We owe something to extravagance, for thrift and adventure seldom go hand in hand."
lady randolph churchill

A snapshot of the Diva

Patron Saint:

Pamela Churchill Harriman

In Pop Culture:

Beyonce

On television:

Joan Holloway, Mad Men

In film:

Catherine Peterson,  Black Widow

Your Potential To Captivate

You were born to wear a crown, and while you may not reign over a kingdom (yet), your regal bearing and  glamorous style commands adoration and respect.

Ruled  by the “lover” archetype, you exude warmth, sensuality and grand femininity. With the “queen” as your secondary archetype, you see a union with a natural born leader as part of your destiny.

Together, your two dominant archetypes coalesce to create a majestic, larger than life, physical presence– the warm eros of the “siren”, with the “queen’s” regal bearing and quiet strength.

You are able to divine a man’s potential, even before he does. You make a man feel like a king, even before he’s reached that status. The term “trophy wife”… that’s you.

 You inspire them to conquer the world so that he may lay it at your feet.  For you, dating is a high stakes game.  You can enjoy pleasurable liaisons, but your ultimate goal is to marry and to marry well.

Consider multi-platinum selling pop star Beyonce Knowles, who in spite of her epic career and jet-setting lifestyle, has devoted herself to one man, Jay-Z (a Zeus-like mogul) for the better part of her adult life. Together, they bolster each other’s reputation  and co-rule an entertainment empire.

You have discriminating taste. You want the best out of life, and  you are willing to use your talent, charm, and preternatural social skills to attain it. A leader yourself, you are capable of running a business or being the fabulous social butterfly you were born to be.  You have mastered the fine art of living and you do it with an enviable grandiosity.

Your anti-seductive qualities....

You let jealousy, competitiveness and competition compromise your goals, particularly your romantic relationships. While you make an exquisite companion, it’s truly one of your gifts, you run the risk of losing yourself and your identity in relationships– and hence a lot  of your seductive appeal. With a  passionate nature and desire for commitment, you may find the single life daunting, and require  balancing archetypes to make smarter romantic choices and avoid co-dependent behavior.

Discover the Diva

Get Inspired!

With the Diva Master Class Bundle You'll ...
  • Leverage the BEST aspects of your personality, and charm naturally
  • Lead and influence like a queen, using little-known soft power tactics
  • Eliminate the behaviors and mindsets that ruin your natural, seductive appeal
  • Ignite and express your raw, magnetic,  'lover' energy
  • Get unstuck-- and figure out your life path
  • Learn how other Divas, just like you, lead remarkable lives
  • Attract people and opportunity by being MORE of yourself
  • Know the kind of partners you naturally attract-- and how to powerfully navigate those relationships
  • Start daily practices and make lifestyle choices that align you with your archetype
  • Leverage your archetype for wealth, opportunity and abundance

Testimonials

Ayesha has been an integral resource for building myself up after my spiritual awakening. Her wisdom is a grounding force. She puts so much into what she teaches and you can tell. I've never felt so comfortable with my feminine energy like I do now, and her Feminine Odyssey course is IT.
Thandiwe Mlauli
Thandiwe Mlauli
A year after breaking an engagement, I started to recover pieces of myself. But I still felt lost, cautious, and scared. So I dedicated 2020 to being the year I would be the confident woman I was prior to that relationship. I came across Ayesha’s YouTube channel. I saw some of her videos and I took the Archetype Quiz. The results rang true and it was so thorough that it couldn’t hurt to take the Feminine Odyssey course. In this course, I learned about the different facets of femininity and the divine goddess that is waiting to reemerge. Just like the Archetype Quiz, the Feminine Odyssey course was very thorough. It discusses the history behind the different archetypes. At times, It felt like I was participating in the “Odyssey” but the female version. Ayesha does an excellent job of connecting the ancient goddesses to our present by providing present-day examples of the archetypes. The past informs the present in this course! And the best part is that she also provides actions or habits that we can do to ignite the different archetypes within us. This course provided the blue print on how to inhabit these different parts of myself. I learned to embrace my beautiful complexities. And Ayesha’s poise is an example of how to do it all with grace. The course is not only a way to discover the different faces of femininity within us. But it also helped me step away from the superficial definition of femininity as prescribed by today’s media. It's not just sex, roses, and pink diamonds. Divine femininity is the 3D version of ourselves. It is sensual, strategic, spiritual, emotional, receptive, creative, and so much more.
Cynthia Paulino
I took the Maiden and Lover bundle and it was so informative and scarily spot on. Thank you for all your wisdom.
Once I started this program, I couldn’t stop. I became annoyed by the work I had to do in between and rescheduled everything else. In truth, a few lines, nor even a paragraph can really truly give justice to this body of work. Coming from me that’s pretty something too because I am extremely really read from spirituality to neuroscience, confident and live my life authentically. Despite being a Lover I’ve never fallen prey to the ridiculous stereotypes pumped out by the patriarchy either. As your program states, I guess I saved my sanity over the years by developing the Sage aspect. I’ve always, always defined my own worth. But yet there was a part of me that I didn’t understand. This part was like a bolt that was preventing the wheels from running smoothly. Where I had great success in life, I was unable to truly understand the reason why to enable me to replicate it for the times when I'd fallen. When I’d encounter really quite terrible jealousy and meanness (which there was a lot), once again, I couldn’t understand why. I knew that I was full of love and kindness and could never comprehend why I was always encountering this abuse, and that’s in adulthood! And so with my Lover self, I'd unconsciously go back for more. A lot came from women too who I dedicate my time to empowering. I knew also that despite being in my fifties I had a magnetic vibe from men. I knew this was because I’m a free-spirit, but it’s clear from this programme the reason why was even more profound than I thought. As you can see I’m struggling to keep this short:). After going through the program I immediately changed by branding to that of the Lover and my Instagram followers and engagement suddenly started picking up. Everything suddenly started to make sense. In the past, I’ve had counselling and all sorts to try and understand. To try and remove the bolt. Although it helped loads, the bolt still remained. Perhaps all counsellors should do your program as a part of their studies! The only thing I’m cross about is that I’ve only just discovered you. It seems crazy because I never stop growing and evolving, and not shy to investigate everything! I suspect it came now because I had finally cut myself away from all the abusers. The cut was bloody. I took no prisoners. Deep down I knew these people although very close to me they were trying to destroy me. Each section is golden nugget after golden nugget. After going through the Lover programme, I thought there is no way that the Maiden programme could touch it or come even close. I was so fully satisfied after listening to Lover I didn’t want to spoil my taste buds by listening to Maiden. Oh gheeze, how wrong I was, I entered a goldmine once more. You are truly a phenomenal woman. Your work is beyond magnificent!
Ingrid M
The Feminine Odyssey is a spiritual, mental and emotional journey that every woman must undergo. Most people spend years of their lives being diluted versions of themselves, but I dare myself and challenge myself to do the internal work to stand unafraid in my truth.
Brandy J
I can tell how much work you put into these courses. The amount of effort you put into studying, the volume of information you've curated for our understanding and the immaculate production is truly noteworthy. You've poured your heart and soul into this. "
This course is truly amazing and eye opening. The first time I took the quiz, a little over a year ago, my seduction archetype was the siren (no surprise there). What I love about this course is that it is providing insight into how I move in the world and the "whys" behind it all. Also, it's a great confidence builder and allowing me to see where I need to work on cultivating balance in my personality. Ayesha, I appreciate the work you've put into creating such dynamic content.
Dawn Easter
These courses are what I've been looking for. After searching and taking different courses on self love, sexual liberation and feminine energy, that I later found out were surface level and not well thought out, I am glad that I invested in your work. In just the last two weeks there have been so many things to make me excited about making some changes in my life. Thank you so much!
M.O.
Ayesha! Gratitude to you! Thank you for this course.I have always felt wrong and in conflict with myself but today, as part of this course, I can finally say that the pieces of my brokenness have come back home to me. I have peace in my femininity. I have gone to church, to business seminars, etc. Nobody has ever explained this the way you just did. I am now excited about being in my own little Paradise and letting my energy attract what I wish to create! Thank you so much!
O. Benson
I purchased the Maiden courses last night, and OH MY GOD it has been a revelation of what happened to me in these last 9 years, this descent in the underworld... I'm literally crying, because in a day binge watching your videos you achieved what nobody (parents, psychologists, friends, quotes, books, consulting etc.) achieved in these long years : clarity in what I'm going through and why. And what awaits me and how I can act upon it. Thank you so much, I think you saved my soul with your videos.
Sophie
I took the archetype quiz again after incorporating some of your recommendations. My Lover archetype has increased above 70%. It is now at 76.2%! Wow! This is amazing! It was inactive before below 70%. I can also tell a difference in my attitude, emotions and my thoughts. I have also received many compliments, gifts and new opportunities! Thank you! This information is like a roadmap.
Shunika M.
I just wanted to write to say thank you for your amazing work. I bought your Sophisticate bundle and have completed the Lover section, and I feel it has pushed me so much further on my personal journey and evolution. So much of it rang true, and I’m so grateful to have found it at my age. The lesson that my energy is a gift and I inspire people as a Lover woman is so true and something I have been told often — but your course allowed me to fully believe and embrace it! The visual of the siren’s island also makes perfect sense to me; by creating a life that gives me deep pleasure and fulfillment, not only am I making myself happy, but I am creating a world that the right kind of person would be interested in joining. Your guidance goes so much deeper than attracting men, it’s a life philosophy. Thank you so much for your research and efforts in providing this for us.
Ella
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The founder of Women Love Power®, Ayesha K. Faines is a writer, media personality, and brave new voice for feminine power and social change. Sought after for her provocative insights on culture, mythology and gender politics, she has been featured on MTV, Essence, Entertainment Tonight, The Michael Baisden Radio Show, AfroPunk, and Time among other media outlets. She's traveled the world lecturing before a number of universities, and she pens a column for Zora Magazine that explores the intersection of love and power. She is best known as a featured panelist on "The Grapevine". Ayesha is a graduate of Yale University and a former television journalist.